Is this fragrance really unisex, or does it skew toward one gender?+−
It's officially unisex and the composition supports that — the floral notes (lily of the valley, carnation) balance the spice and amber without tipping heavily feminine, and the base reads warm and skin-like rather than traditionally gendered. That said, fragrance communities tend to note that men in particular gravitate toward it for its sweet, amber-forward sensuality. Women who enjoy gourmand-leaning or amber-rich fragrances will find it equally wearable.
How do you handle the rubbery or petrol-like opening?+−
The best advice from people who've worked through it: apply one spray and wait. The opening phase — which can carry a sharp, slightly rubbery saffron-and-spice quality — typically mellows within 20 to 30 minutes as the carnation and lily of the valley come forward and the amber base begins to emerge. If you judge it only on the first five minutes, you'll likely miss the fragrance it actually becomes.
How strong is it and how many sprays should you use?+−
This is a genuinely potent fragrance with projection and longevity that put it in "beast mode" territory by most accounts. One spray is the standard recommendation — on fabric especially, it can linger into the next day. Over-applying amplifies the sweetness to a degree that many find overwhelming, so less is firmly more here.